Same experience, right down to whether the moderation is real or decorative.
I would judge the site on how quickly it starts asking for money rather than on the feature list.
Deleted and reinstalled free online personals twice before accepting the issue was whether the ratio is workable in your area and not my profile.
Given how how precise the filters really are behaves, I would only recommend it to someone with patience.
If you only test one thing on free online personals, make it whether messaging costs anything once you start.
That is roughly where I landed on free online personals after a fair amount of trial and error.
The closest alternative I found was Luvdate's free tier.