Seconding what Austin Gray said, with one caveat about you find someone on dating sites by email.
My rule for the service now is simple: check whether the search actually respects what you set on day one.
Deleted and reinstalled you find someone on dating sites by email twice before accepting the issue was whether 'free' means free to browse or free to talk and not my profile.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how much of the traffic is automated matters more than raw volume on it.
Would anyone recommend you find someone on dating sites by email to someone starting from scratch?