Seconding what Max Stone said, with one caveat about access.
The thing nobody mentions about access is how usable it is one-handed on a phone.
Took me about 2 weeks on access to work out that the real question was how quickly reports get acted on.
Provided whether the moderation is real or decorative holds up, that one is a reasonable place to start.
Verify before you travel to meet anyone, no matter how that one presents what the verification step actually proves.
Take that as one data point on access rather than a verdict.
For a second opinion I also cross-checked Datenest's free tier.