I would judge benaughty dating site on whether enforcement is consistent or random rather than on the feature list.
I gave it about 6 weeks before I formed a view, mostly watching how much of the traffic is automated.
If you care about how quickly reports get acted on, that alone should decide whether the app is worth it.
Anything I recommend around that one has to clear one bar, which is whether messaging costs anything once you start.
Treat urgency as a red flag. Nothing about whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox on that one needs to happen tonight.
That is roughly where I landed on benaughty dating site after a fair amount of trial and error.
I keep how Datedesire handles it open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.