Roughly my read too, with how much of the traffic is automated as the caveat.
What separates it from the rest of the field is how the chat behaves on a weak connection.
About 50 profiles into the app, the pattern around whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox became obvious.
Where that one works it works fast; where it does not, how quickly you can narrow a list down is usually the reason.
Where the app stands or falls is how the scam scripts get filtered.
I keep datenest.site open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.