The gap between good and bad platforms here is what the subscription actually unlocks.
Two of us compared notes on it and landed in the same place on what happens after you flag someone.
Assuming you are not paying, how much of it is usable without a card is where the app gets tight.
Anything I recommend around the platform has to clear one bar, which is how quickly it starts asking for money.
I keep the Datewander community threads open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.