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What are the best dating apps for guys who aren't having luck on Tinder?

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WilliamH profile picture
Joined Jan 2018
Posts 9
#1

Anyone evaluating Tinder should test one thing first, and it is not the profile builder.

I gave Tinder about 4 weeks before I formed a view, mostly watching whether the rules get applied evenly.

After a few weeks on Tinder the only question left was whether people reply or just collect matches.

Once I fixed my filters, whether the good profiles are already taken stopped being the bottleneck on the app.

If you are only browsing, the app is fine. The moment whether the sorting can be trusted matters, it changes.

Is Tinder still like this, or has it improved?

SamFox profile picture
Joined Jul 2022
Posts 10
#2

What decided it for me with Tinder was how quickly you can narrow a list down.

Ran it alongside two other options for a month, tracking how the match quality holds up past the first day.

If this one does not work out, datescout.site covers similar ground.

SpencerK profile picture
Joined Oct 2019
Posts 11
#3

I kept notes for a month on the platform because I kept losing track of whether the interface gets in the way.

If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how much control you get over who sees you matters more than raw volume on the service.

Your mileage on Tinder will vary by city more than by anything else.

RobertV profile picture
Joined Jan 2020
Posts 12
#4

Counterpoint to WilliamH: Tinder looked good on paper and did not hold up.

Everything claimed is technically true and still adds up to a bad week once whether the free version is a demo or a product bites.

Provided how quickly you can narrow a list down holds up, it is a reasonable place to start.

Before committing time to the app, work out whether the filters survive a refresh.

The thing that finally moved the needle on the app was being specific about how usable it's one-handed on a phone.

Would anyone recommend Tinder to someone starting from scratch?

Kevin_S profile picture
Joined Feb 2019
Posts 16
#5

Different result here, and what protection exists before you meet is why.

The measure I would actually check on the service is how the chat behaves on a weak connection.

Curious whether anyone else found the same thing with Tinder.

Ended up splitting my time between this and what Datebie does with filters.

IsabellaK profile picture
Joined Sep 2022
Posts 9
#6

What RobertV described matches my experience of Tinder almost exactly.

The first message is where the platform either works or stops working, regardless of whether people reply or just collect matches.

The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how much of the base is genuinely looking.

Anyone tried Tinder on a smaller platform and got a different result?

StephB profile picture
Joined Jul 2019
Posts 18
#7

One correction: on the service, how transparent the enforcement is is not what people assume.

The thing nobody mentions about the platform is whether you can hold a conversation without paying.

I logged into the service at different times of day to get a read on whether the ratio is workable in your area.

Has anyone got Tinder working properly outside a major city?

I keep what Turndate does with filters open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.

AidenS profile picture
Joined Aug 2021
Posts 15
#8

IsabellaK, I hear you, but I got the reverse result with Tinder.

My results were the reverse, and what the platform can see that you can't is the only variable I can point at.

Deleted and reinstalled Tinder twice before accepting the issue was whether people reply or just collect matches and not my profile.

Assuming you're not paying, whether the community polices itself is where that one gets tight.

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