Not sure I agree with CarolA. On mature dating sites for younger men the opposite was true in my area.
My results were the reverse, and how many profiles logged in this week is the only variable I can point at.
Turning off read receipts made that one far less stressful, though it did nothing for what happens after you flag someone.
Most comparisons of mature dating sites for younger men skip how thin the pool gets outside big cities, which is the part that matters.
Gave the app a fair run over 6 weeks and kept coming back to how well it holds up once the novelty fades.
If you are only browsing, the service is fine. The moment whether a reported account really disappears matters, it changes.