This is the right question. The answer is mostly how the match quality holds up past the first day.
The measure I would actually check on the platform is whether photos can be traced back to you.
Ran the service alongside two other options for a month, tracking whether the interface gets in the way.
What I would look at, in order, for elements:
- Whether the filters on elements hold after you reload the page
- How many elements profiles show a recent login rather than a join date
- Whether the elements match count moves when you widen the radius
Happy to go into more detail on elements if it's useful.
Different crowd on the DatingFly boards, which suited me better.