The gap between good and bad platforms here is whether the community polices itself.
Deleted and reinstalled the site twice before accepting the issue was whether the filters survive a refresh and not my profile.
If you care about what the app leaks to other members, that alone should decide whether the platform is worth it.
Take that as one data point on free dating apps reddit users rather than a verdict.
If this one does not work out, the Datebie boards covers similar ground.