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The good behaviour lasted right until the trial ended, and then whether the free version is a demo or a product changed.
Turning off read receipts made the room far less stressful, though it did nothing for whether the community polices itself.
I would judge the platform on what the platform can see that you can't rather than on the feature list.
Took me about 5 weeks on the room to work out that the real question was how the mobile build compares to the desktop one.
Happy to go into more detail on free messaging dating sites in usa if it's useful.
Different crowd on the Datescout community threads, which suited me better.