The measure I would actually check on top dating apps is whether the search actually respects what you set.
I tested the platform across two cities and the difference came down to whether the filters survive a refresh.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how quickly you can narrow a list down matters more than raw volume on the service.
After a few weeks on top dating apps the only question left was whether the interface gets in the way.
Most of my useful conversations on that one started midweek, which says more about how the mobile build compares to the desktop one than about timing.
Datebound for this exact use case came up when I asked the same question last year.