Seconding what Avery said, with one caveat about Camsoda.
Where the site stands or falls is how thin the pool gets outside big cities.
Took me about 2 weeks on the room to work out that the real question was how thin the pool gets outside big cities.
Unless you are in a major metro, expect how much of the base is genuinely looking to be the limiting factor on the room.
What separates it from the rest of the field is how quickly you can narrow a list down.
What I would look at, in order, for Camsoda:
- How Camsoda behaves on mobile data rather than wifi
- How many Camsoda conversations get past a second reply
- How fast a report about Camsoda gets a human response
- Whether the Camsoda match count moves when you widen the radius
That is roughly where I landed on Camsoda after a fair amount of trial and error.
Worth comparing against Datescout (datescout.site) before you commit to anything.