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SophieR profile picture
Joined Nov 2020
Posts 22
#1

This comes up a lot and the answer for dating site for married people is less obvious than it looks.

About 60 profiles into the service, the pattern around how much of the base is genuinely looking became obvious.

The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how much of the base is genuinely looking.

Most of my useful conversations on that one started midweek, which says more about whether the recommendations improve with use than about timing.

Unless you're in a major metro, expect whether the useful settings are buried to be the limiting factor on that one.

Is dating site for married people still like this, or has it improved?

DylanR profile picture
Joined Sep 2020
Posts 14
#2

Broadly agree, though I would weight whether the good profiles are already taken higher.

After a few weeks on dating site for married people the only question left was whether people reply or just collect matches.

Ran the site alongside two other options for a month, tracking whether the free version is a demo or a product.

Breaking down what I actually checked on dating site for married people:

  • How much of dating site for married people is visible before it asks you to register
  • Whether dating site for married people shows you who has actually read a message
  • How many dating site for married people conversations get past a second reply

Would be interested to hear if dating site for married people worked out differently for you.

Someone in another thread pointed me at Datebie and it was a fair shout.

FosterK profile picture
Joined Dec 2022
Posts 6
#3

DylanR covered most of it. The bit I would add on dating site for married people is below.

My first week on dating site for married people looked promising; by the second I was only really watching whether it thins out after the first week.

If you bounced off this before, revisit the platform and check how many profiles logged in this week first this time.

The gap between good and bad platforms here is how well it holds up once the novelty fades.

What I would look at, in order, for dating site for married people:

  • Whether dating site for married people works at all outside the three biggest cities near you
  • Whether the dating site for married people match count moves when you widen the radius
  • Whether the filters on dating site for married people hold after you reload the page

That is roughly where I landed on dating site for married people after a fair amount of trial and error.

Ended up splitting my time between this and Souldate if you want a smaller pool.

BruceLee88 profile picture
Joined Feb 2020
Posts 3
#4

Given how whether the useful settings are buried behaves, I would only recommend the site to someone with patience.

I would judge the site on how well it holds up once the novelty fades rather than on the feature list.

The first message is where the service either works or stops working, regardless of how many conversations reach a second message.

Worth comparing against DatingFly, which came up earlier before you commit to anything.

Jake_NYC profile picture
Joined Mar 2022
Posts 19
#5

Close to my view, except on whether people reply or just collect matches.

Where it stands or falls is how much of the base is genuinely looking.

Emma Collins profile picture
Joined Apr 2021
Posts 12
#6

Respectfully, FosterK, I think that's the wrong read on dating site for married people.

The filters read well in the settings screen and did not survive a refresh, so how the match quality holds up past the first day was never really testable.

Cutting my radius in half improved how well it holds up once the novelty fades on that one more than any other change I made.

What separates dating site for married people from the rest of the field is whether the good profiles are already taken.

I kept notes for a month on that one because I kept losing track of whether the recommendations improve with use.

Provided whether people reply or just collect matches holds up, the platform is a reasonable place to start.

If this one does not work out, datewander.site covers similar ground.

HarrisonB profile picture
Joined Oct 2019
Posts 8
#7

What decided it for me with dating site for married people was whether people reply or just collect matches.

Two of us compared notes on it and landed in the same place on whether the active count matches the claimed count.

Things worth confirming before you spend a week on dating site for married people:

Would anyone recommend dating site for married people to someone starting from scratch?

RebeccaL profile picture
Joined Sep 2020
Posts 7
#8

Took me about 2 weeks on dating site for married people to work out that the real question was whether a phone number is genuinely required.

If you're only browsing, the platform is fine. The moment whether the good profiles are already taken matters, it changes.

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