My rule for site now is simple: check how anonymous you actually stay in practice on day one.
I gave the platform about 4 weeks before I formed a view, mostly watching how quickly it starts asking for money.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how much is automated versus reviewed matters more than raw volume on the room.
The thing nobody mentions about it's how thin the pool gets outside big cities.
The short checklist I use before trusting anything like site:
- How fast a report about site gets a human response
- How site behaves on mobile data rather than wifi
- Whether site works at all outside the three biggest cities near you
- Whether the site match count moves when you widen the radius
Curious whether anyone else found the same thing with site.
For a second opinion I also cross-checked datewander.site.
