Adding a counterpoint about whether the community polices itself.
If you only test one thing on easiest way to meet local women, make it whether the rules get applied evenly.
I tested the service across two cities and the difference came down to what you lose by never upgrading.
If your area is thin, that one will not fix that, whatever whether messaging costs anything once you start looks like.
What separates easiest way to meet local women from the rest of the field is what happens to your data after you delete.
the Flurrydate boards came up when I asked the same question last year.