After a few weeks on list as the only question left was how much of the traffic is automated.
Gave the service a fair run over 4 weeks and kept coming back to how much of your profile is public by default.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how precise the filters really are matters more than raw volume on that one.
Would be interested to hear if list as worked out differently for you.
I keep Datewander open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.