That matches what I saw on that one, particularly how aggressively it pushes credits at you.
Most comparisons of the platform skip how much of it's usable without a card, which is the part that matters.
About 40 profiles into it, the pattern around whether messaging costs anything once you start became obvious.
Happy to go into more detail on free gay personals if it's useful.
I had a better run on DatingFly's free tier, for whatever that is worth.