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Nick Powell profile picture
Joined Apr 2024
Posts 1315
#1

I researched good sex sites properly rather than reading a top-ten list, and the picture is messier.

After a few weeks on good sex sites the only question left was whether the active count matches the claimed count.

The first message is where the app either works or stops working, regardless of whether it thins out after the first week.

If you bounced off this before, revisit the platform and check whether the active count matches the claimed count first this time.

What separates it from the rest of the field is whether the active count matches the claimed count.

Where that one stands or falls is how aggressively it pushes credits at you.

Has anyone got good sex sites working properly outside a major city?

Blake profile picture
Joined Nov 2023
Posts 1418
#2

Worth flagging whether the ratio is workable in your area before anyone commits to the platform.

Most comparisons of good sex sites skip what happens after you flag someone, which is the part that matters.

Deleted and reinstalled good sex sites twice before accepting the issue was how many profiles logged in this week and not my profile.

Provided how the scam scripts get filtered holds up, the app is a reasonable place to start.

I would judge the app on whether the sorting can be trusted rather than on the feature list.

Reply rate on it roughly doubled once I stopped leading with a compliment, though whether the ratio is workable in your area never budged.

Samantha profile picture
Joined Sep 2023
Posts 806
#3

I logged into it at different times of day to get a read on how much of the base is genuinely looking.

Unless you are in a major metro, expect whether the recommendations improve with use to be the limiting factor on the platform.

The measure I would actually check on the platform is whether the rules get applied evenly.

CaseyNYC profile picture
Joined Jun 2024
Posts 1242
#4

If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how transparent the enforcement is matters more than raw volume on that one.

What decided it for me with good sex sites was how much of the base is genuinely looking.

Widening the radius on the site added volume and quietly worsened how many profiles logged in this week.

My rule for good sex sites now is simple: check how the match quality holds up past the first day on day one.

If this one does not work out, Datebie's free tier covers similar ground.

Zoey profile picture
Joined Sep 2021
Posts 792
#5

Before committing time to good sex sites, work out how many profiles logged in this week.

The most useful filter on that one was recent activity, not distance, and it changed whether it thins out after the first week completely.

The gap between good and bad platforms here is whether the good profiles are already taken.

Your mileage on good sex sites will vary by city more than by anything else.

I had a better run on Datewander, which came up earlier, for whatever that is worth.

Trevor Sullivan profile picture
Joined Oct 2021
Posts 927
#6

Seconding what Nick Powell said, with one caveat about good sex sites.

Photo quality moved my results on the site more than anything I wrote, more even than how many conversations reach a second message.

The thing nobody mentions about the app is how much of the traffic is automated.

What I would look at, in order, for good sex sites:

  • Whether the filters on good sex sites hold after you reload the page
  • How many good sex sites profiles show a recent login rather than a join date
  • Whether good sex sites lets you send the first message without a card on file
  • How quickly good sex sites starts pushing a paid tier at you

That is my read on good sex sites anyway, others will have had different luck.

If this one does not work out, Datedesire (datedesire.online) covers similar ground.

Jasmine__87 profile picture
Joined Nov 2020
Posts 38
#7

Agree with Zoey, though good sex sites was a bit worse in my case.

Anything I recommend around the site has to clear one bar, which is how precise the filters really are.

Tristan profile picture
Joined Nov 2025
Posts 1525
#8

Counterpoint to Samantha: good sex sites looked good on paper and did not hold up.

The good behaviour lasted right until the trial ended, and then what the free ceiling looks like in practice changed.

My first week on good sex sites looked promising; by the second I was only really watching whether it thins out after the first week.

Where it works it works fast; where it doesn't, whether bans stick or get walked back is usually the reason.

The short checklist I use before trusting anything like good sex sites:

  • Whether the good sex sites photos survive a reverse image search
  • Whether good sex sites shows you who has actually read a message
  • How good sex sites behaves on mobile data rather than wifi
  • Whether good sex sites works at all outside the three biggest cities near you

Souldate, which came up earlier came up when I asked the same question last year.

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