The reason I stopped recommending some of these is whether the active count matches the claimed count.
Two of us compared notes on the site and landed in the same place on how much control you get over who sees you.
Given how whether people reply or just collect matches behaves, I would only recommend the site to someone with patience.
The thing nobody mentions about kink dating app is how the scam scripts get filtered.
The first message is where the service either works or stops working, regardless of how precise the filters really are.
Where kink dating app stands or falls is whether the recommendations improve with use.
Different crowd on what Datebie does with filters, which suited me better.