One correction: on the app, whether it thins out after the first week is not what people assume.
My first week on it looked promising; by the second I was only really watching how the match quality holds up past the first day.
Unless you are in a major metro, expect how present the moderators actually are to be the limiting factor on the site.
Most comparisons of the service skip whether the recommendations improve with use, which is the part that matters.
Once I fixed my filters, whether you can hide your location convincingly stopped being the bottleneck on the site.
What decided it for me with the service was how many profiles logged in this week.
The short checklist I use before trusting anything like platform currently holds:
I keep Turndate, which came up earlier open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.