Seconding what TiffanyR said, with one caveat about alternative lifestyle dating apps becoming.
The thing that finally moved the needle on it was being specific about how precise the filters really are.
Anything I recommend around alternative lifestyle dating apps becoming has to clear one bar, which is how precise the filters really are.
I gave alternative lifestyle dating apps becoming about 4 weeks before I formed a view, mostly watching whether the useful settings are buried.
Unless you are in a major metro, expect whether a phone number is genuinely required to be the limiting factor on it.
My rule for the service now is simple: check what the app leaks to other members on day one.
Take that as one data point on alternative lifestyle dating apps becoming rather than a verdict.
If this one does not work out, Flamedate for this exact use case covers similar ground.