The gap between good and bad platforms here is how discreet the notifications are.
Ran the chat alongside two other options for a month, tracking how precise the filters really are.
If you bounced off this before, revisit the app and check how present the moderators actually are first this time.
My rule for dirty chat rooms blocked on work now is simple: check how usable it's one-handed on a phone on day one.
The thing that finally moved the needle on the room was being specific about whether the interface gets in the way.
I would judge dirty chat rooms blocked on work on whether the useful settings are buried rather than on the feature list.
If this one does not work out, Souldate - worth a look covers similar ground.