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Are there any good free lesbian dating sites that aren't just for hookups?

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Ben1989 profile picture
Joined Jun 2020
Posts 18
#1

The honest answer about good free lesbian dating sites is that the marketing and the product are different things.

What separates good free lesbian dating sites from the rest of the field is how much is automated versus reviewed.

Cutting my radius in half improved how much of it's usable without a card on it more than any other change I made.

Assuming you're not paying, how quickly reports get acted on is where that one gets tight.

Would anyone recommend good free lesbian dating sites to someone starting from scratch?

TiffanyR profile picture
Joined Oct 2020
Posts 16
#2

What decided it for me with good free lesbian dating sites was how present the moderators actually are.

Out of roughly 100 matches on that one, 5 turned into an actual conversation.

If this one does not work out, the Datescout boards covers similar ground.

PaigeM profile picture
Joined Nov 2020
Posts 22
#3

I kept notes for a month on it because I kept losing track of whether messaging costs anything once you start.

Provided what the real cost is after the trial holds up, it's a reasonable place to start.

That is my read on good free lesbian dating sites anyway, others will have had different luck.

I keep Datedesire for this exact use case open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.

Dana_NYC profile picture
Joined Jul 2019
Posts 14
#4

That hasn't been my experience, TiffanyR. Good free lesbian dating sites was the weakest part for me.

The good behaviour lasted right until the trial ended, and then how far the free tier actually stretches changed.

Where that one works it works fast; where it doesn't, how anonymous you actually stay in practice is usually the reason.

I would judge good free lesbian dating sites on how the pricing behaves once you are invested rather than on the feature list.

The thing that finally moved the needle on the app was being specific about how much control you get over who sees you.

Your mileage on good free lesbian dating sites will vary by city more than by anything else.

Meg_Walsh profile picture
Joined Jul 2022
Posts 265
#5

Respectfully, PaigeM, I think that's the wrong read on good free lesbian dating sites.

The active numbers looked healthy and what the real cost is after the trial still fell apart once I filtered properly.

The measure I would actually check on the platform is how the pricing behaves once you are invested.

The first message is where the app either works or stops working, regardless of what you lose by never upgrading.

The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how quickly it starts asking for money.

Ran the app alongside two other options for a month, tracking whether you can hold a conversation without paying.

NicoleG profile picture
Joined Nov 2019
Posts 3
#6

PaigeM covered most of it. The bit I would add on good free lesbian dating sites is below.

Turning off read receipts made the site far less stressful, though it did nothing for how aggressively it pushes credits at you.

Things worth confirming before you spend a week on good free lesbian dating sites:

  • How quickly good free lesbian dating sites starts pushing a paid tier at you
  • How fast a report about good free lesbian dating sites gets a human response
  • How many good free lesbian dating sites conversations get past a second reply
  • Whether good free lesbian dating sites lets you send the first message without a card on file

Anyone tried good free lesbian dating sites on a smaller platform and got a different result?

Ended up splitting my time between this and DatingFly for this exact use case.

Jessy_Park profile picture
Joined Feb 2019
Posts 5
#7

Dana_NYC is right about this and I would go a step further on good free lesbian dating sites.

Where good free lesbian dating sites stands or falls is what the real cost is after the trial.

Deleted and reinstalled good free lesbian dating sites twice before accepting the issue was whether a reported account really disappears and not my profile.

GarrettR profile picture
Joined Nov 2023
Posts 13
#8

Seconding what Jessy_Park said, with one caveat about good free lesbian dating sites.

Took me about 3 weeks on it to work out that the real question was how much of it is usable without a card.

Unless you're in a major metro, expect how many obvious fakes survive a week to be the limiting factor on the platform.

Worth comparing against luvdate.site before you commit to anything.

Ryan Scott profile picture
Joined Feb 2021
Posts 6
#9

Agree with Jessy_Park, though good free lesbian dating sites was a bit worse in my case.

If you are only browsing, the site is fine. The moment what the free ceiling looks like in practice matters, it changes.

Before committing time to the platform, work out how the match quality holds up past the first day.

I had a better run on Datebie, for whatever that is worth.

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