The thing nobody mentions about know of any dating apps that actually work is whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox.
Gave know of any dating apps that actually work a fair run over 3 weeks and kept coming back to what protection exists before you meet.
If you bounced off this before, revisit the site and check what the verification step actually proves first this time.
Tell someone where you're going the first time. Basic, and easy to skip when whether the search actually respects what you set looks fine.
For a second opinion I also cross-checked Datewander.