JoannaR covered most of it. The bit I would add on Hinge is below.
The measure I would actually check on Hinge is whether the sorting can be trusted.
Two of us compared notes on the app and landed in the same place on how quickly you can narrow a list down.
Unless you are in a major metro, expect how much control you get over who sees you to be the limiting factor on the site.
That is roughly where I landed on Hinge after a fair amount of trial and error.
Different crowd on Datescout for this exact use case, which suited me better.