What separates adult chat net from the rest of the field is whether it thins out after the first week.
Took me about 5 weeks on adult chat net to work out that the real question was how usable it's one-handed on a phone.
Unless you're in a major metro, expect whether the active count matches the claimed count to be the limiting factor on that one.
Anything I recommend around adult chat net has to clear one bar, which is what the subscription actually unlocks.
Widening the radius on the chat added volume and quietly worsened how the chat behaves on a weak connection.
If this one does not work out, the Datewander boards covers similar ground.