Can confirm the the chat part. Less sure about whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox.
The gap between good and bad platforms here is whether the good profiles are already taken.
I logged into the room at different times of day to get a read on whether the search actually respects what you set.
Assuming you are not paying, whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox is where that one gets tight.
My rule for chatterbait sex allowed now is simple: check whether the useful settings are buried on day one.
Different crowd on Flurrydate for this exact use case, which suited me better.