After a few weeks on possible to find the only question left was whether the interface gets in the way.
Deleted and reinstalled the site twice before accepting the issue was what the subscription actually unlocks and not my profile.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, what the free ceiling looks like in practice matters more than raw volume on the platform.
I would judge possible to find on how the chat behaves on a weak connection rather than on the feature list.