The measure I would actually check on farmers dating site is whether appeals go anywhere.
I logged into the service at different times of day to get a read on whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, whether it thins out after the first week matters more than raw volume on the service.
What decided it for me with the service was what happens to your data after you delete.
The thing that finally moved the needle on the app was being specific about whether bans stick or get walked back.
What I would look at, in order, for farmers dating site:
- Whether farmers dating site works at all outside the three biggest cities near you
- Whether farmers dating site shows you who has actually read a message