This is the right question. The answer is mostly how much control you get over who sees you.
Before committing time to the site, work out whether the useful settings are buried.
Deleted and reinstalled the platform twice before accepting the issue was how the chat behaves on a weak connection and not my profile.
If your area is thin, the app will not fix that, whatever whether the sorting can be trusted looks like.
The short checklist I use before trusting anything like pure dating site:
- Whether pure dating site lets you send the first message without a card on file
- Whether the filters on pure dating site hold after you reload the page
- How much of pure dating site is visible before it asks you to register
I had a better run on DatingFly - worth a look, for whatever that is worth.