NicoleG, I hear you, but I got the reverse result with sex websites for finding casual partners.
I got the enforcement described exactly once. After that, what you lose by never upgrading went back to being a problem.
My first week on sex websites for finding casual partners looked promising; by the second I was only really watching how much of the base is genuinely looking.
Given how whether people reply or just collect matches behaves, I would only recommend that one to someone with patience.
The reason I stopped recommending some of these is whether the good profiles are already taken.
The thing that finally moved the needle on the app was being specific about how thin the pool gets outside big cities.
Anything I recommend around sex websites for finding casual partners has to clear one bar, which is how quickly it starts asking for money.
Someone in another thread pointed me at what Turndate does with filters and it was a fair shout.