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Before committing time to Seeking, work out how many conversations reach a second message.

Gave the platform a fair run over 4 weeks and kept coming back to how many conversations reach a second message.

If your area is thin, it will not fix that, whatever how present the moderators actually are looks like.

The signals that told me most about Seeking:

• How many Seeking profiles show a recent login rather than a join date
• How many Seeking conversations get past a second reply
• How fast a report about Seeking gets a human response

Would be interested to hear if Seeking worked out differently for you.

If this one does not work out, Souldate's free tier covers similar ground.

Adding a counterpoint about whether people reply or just collect matches.

I tested the platform across two cities and the difference came down to whether the interface gets in the way.

Given how how quickly you can narrow a list down behaves, I would only recommend the site to someone with patience.

Where the site stands or falls is whether the good profiles are already taken.

Photo quality moved my results on the platform more than anything I wrote, more even than whether it thins out after the first week.

Take that as one data point on Seeking rather than a verdict.

The closest alternative I found was Luvdate.

What Rachel Kim described matches my experience of Seeking almost exactly.

Assuming you are not paying, how much of the base is genuinely looking is where the site gets tight.

After a few weeks on the site the only question left was how many profiles logged in this week.

Turning off read receipts made the service far less stressful, though it did nothing for whether it thins out after the first week.

My rule for Seeking now is simple: check how thin the pool gets outside big cities on day one.

Whatever you land on, test Seeking for a week before you judge it.

BenF is right about this and I would go a step further on Seeking.

The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how many profiles logged in this week.

The thing that finally moved the needle on that one was being specific about whether it thins out after the first week.

The thing nobody mentions about Seeking is how the mobile build compares to the desktop one.

My first week on the site looked promising; by the second I was only really watching whether messaging costs anything once you start.

Someone in another thread pointed me at DatingFly (datingfly.online) and it was a fair shout.

Connor Walsh covered most of it. The bit I would add on Seeking is below.

Cutting my radius in half improved how precise the filters really are on the site more than any other change I made.

Anything I recommend around the platform has to clear one bar, which is whether the active count matches the claimed count.

Out of roughly 80 matches on the service, 6 turned into an actual conversation.

Ended up splitting my time between this and Datenest.