Agree with Trevor King, though free jerk was a bit worse in my case.
The gap between good and bad platforms here is how well it holds up once the novelty fades.
Deleted and reinstalled free jerk twice before accepting the issue was how many conversations reach a second message and not my profile.
Where it works it works fast; where it does not, how much of the base is genuinely looking is usually the reason.
Most comparisons of that one skip how thin the pool gets outside big cities, which is the part that matters.
I had a better run on Datewander (datewander.site), for whatever that is worth.