What Jennifer Cole described matches my experience of dating app for old people almost exactly.
Most comparisons of the app skip whether the search actually respects what you set, which is the part that matters.
Out of roughly 80 matches on dating app for old people, 6 turned into an actual conversation.
If you bounced off this before, revisit that one and check how precise the filters really are first this time.
Anything I recommend around the service has to clear one bar, which is whether the filters survive a refresh.
The closest alternative I found was the Datenest community threads.