Broadly agree, though I would weight how much control you get over who sees you higher.
The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how the mobile build compares to the desktop one.
I gave safest app about 6 weeks before I formed a view, mostly watching how the mobile build compares to the desktop one.
If you care about whether the search actually respects what you set, that alone should decide whether the chat is worth it.
The signals that told me most about safest app:
- How fast a report about safest app gets a human response
- Whether safest app works at all outside the three biggest cities near you
- How much of safest app is visible before it asks you to register
Datebound if you want a smaller pool came up when I asked the same question last year.