Before committing time to gay video chat rooms, work out how discreet the notifications are.
My first week on that one looked promising; by the second I was only really watching how quickly you can narrow a list down.
Assuming you are not paying, how the chat behaves on a weak connection is where the chat gets tight.
I would judge the app on whether it thins out after the first week rather than on the feature list.
Rewriting the opening line did more for the chat than a month of tweaking how the chat behaves on a weak connection.
Would be interested to hear if gay video chat rooms worked out differently for you.
I had a better run on the Flurrydate community threads, for whatever that is worth.