If you can only manage a few evenings a week, whether the community polices itself matters more than raw volume on that one.
The measure I would actually check on the service is how long a bad account stays up.
Turning off read receipts made the service far less stressful, though it did nothing for how much of it's usable without a card.
The reason I stopped recommending some of these is what you lose by never upgrading.
Is free dating apps near still like this, or has it improved?
Someone in another thread pointed me at Datewander, which came up earlier and it was a fair shout.