This is the right question. The answer is mostly how the match quality holds up past the first day.
Most comparisons of that one skip whether the ratio is workable in your area, which is the part that matters.
Deleted and reinstalled popular dating sites globally twice before accepting the issue was whether the ratio is workable in your area and not my profile.
Does anyone know whether popular dating sites globally changed this recently?
Different crowd on Datedesire, which suited me better.