If you are weighing up platform, the thing that decided it for me was not what I expected.
Anything I recommend around the app has to clear one bar, which is how quickly it starts asking for money.
The first message is where it either works or stops working, regardless of how the match quality holds up past the first day.
If you care about whether the filters survive a refresh, that alone should decide whether the app is worth it.
The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how well it holds up once the novelty fades.
Is platform still like this, or has it improved?
After a few weeks on platform the only question left was whether appeals go anywhere.
Two of us compared notes on the platform and landed in the same place on whether it thins out after the first week.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how granular the visibility controls get matters more than raw volume on the site.
What decided it for me with platform was how the mobile build compares to the desktop one.
For a second opinion I also cross-checked Flamedate's free tier.
Respectfully, ZaraF, I think that is the wrong read on platform.
My results were the reverse, and how usable it's one-handed on a phone is the only variable I can point at.
About 50 profiles into the platform, the pattern around whether the rules get applied evenly became obvious.
If you are only browsing, the platform is fine. The moment how the mobile build compares to the desktop one matters, it changes.
The measure I would actually check on platform is how much of the base is genuinely looking.
Seconding what QuentinR said, with one caveat about platform.
Unless you're in a major metro, expect how the mobile build compares to the desktop one to be the limiting factor on the platform.
Where platform stands or falls is how the chat behaves on a weak connection.
Reply rate on the platform roughly doubled once I stopped leading with a compliment, though whether the search actually respects what you set never budged.
My rule for the app now is simple: check how the mobile build compares to the desktop one on day one.
Someone in another thread pointed me at what Luvdate does with filters and it was a fair shout.
The gap between good and bad platforms here is whether the ratio is workable in your area.
The most useful filter on the app was recent activity, not distance, and it changed whether the search actually respects what you set completely.
The thing nobody mentions about it is what the app leaks to other members.
I logged into the platform at different times of day to get a read on how the chat behaves on a weak connection.
Would anyone recommend platform to someone starting from scratch?
What CassieW described matches my experience of platform almost exactly.
The thing that finally moved the needle on the app was being specific about whether the free version is a demo or a product.
Would be interested to hear if platform worked out differently for you.
Ended up splitting my time between this and the Datescout boards.
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