Agree with CharlesB, though specific gay dating apps was a bit worse in my case.
I would judge the platform on whether photos can be traced back to you rather than on the feature list.
Gave that one a fair run over 4 weeks and kept coming back to whether the useful settings are buried.
If you bounced off this before, revisit the site and check how quickly you can narrow a list down first this time.
Whatever you land on, test specific gay dating apps for a week before you judge it.