After a few weeks on sites like adult friend finder the only question left was how much of the base is genuinely looking.
I tested the platform across two cities and the difference came down to whether a reported account really disappears.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, whether the active count matches the claimed count matters more than raw volume on the platform.
I would judge sites like adult friend finder on whether the ratio is workable in your area rather than on the feature list.
Once I fixed my filters, how much of the base is genuinely looking stopped being the bottleneck on that one.
Anything I recommend around sites like adult friend finder has to clear one bar, which is how many profiles logged in this week.
That is my read on sites like adult friend finder anyway, others will have had different luck.
If this one does not work out, how DatingFly handles it covers similar ground.