Before committing time to weird dating sites, work out whether it thins out after the first week.
That is roughly where I landed on weird dating sites after a fair amount of trial and error.
Been on and off weird dating sites for a while now and my read has changed a few times.
The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how the match quality holds up past the first day.
Turning off read receipts made the service far less stressful, though it did nothing for whether the algorithm is doing anything useful.
Unless you're in a major metro, expect how well it holds up once the novelty fades to be the limiting factor on the service.
After a few weeks on weird dating sites the only question left was whether people reply or just collect matches.
Has anyone got weird dating sites working properly outside a major city?
Before committing time to weird dating sites, work out whether it thins out after the first week.
That is roughly where I landed on weird dating sites after a fair amount of trial and error.
What BrandonC described matches my experience of weird dating sites almost exactly.
My first week on it looked promising; by the second I was only really watching whether a phone number is genuinely required.
Assuming you are not paying, whether the recommendations improve with use is where the service gets tight.
Would anyone recommend weird dating sites to someone starting from scratch?
If you are only browsing, the site is fine. The moment whether the recommendations improve with use matters, it changes.
Most comparisons of weird dating sites skip whether the interface gets in the way, which is the part that matters.
Filling the profile out properly changed the service more than switching platforms did, and it reframed whether the active count matches the claimed count.
My rule for that one now is simple: check whether the ratio is workable in your area on day one.
The signals that told me most about weird dating sites:
Curious whether anyone else found the same thing with weird dating sites.
I would judge weird dating sites on what the platform can see that you can't rather than on the feature list.
Widening the radius on the site added volume and quietly worsened whether enforcement is consistent or random.
Where that one stands or falls is how much is automated versus reviewed.
Is weird dating sites still like this, or has it improved?
Rewriting the opening line did more for it than a month of tweaking whether the ratio is workable in your area.
If you only test one thing on weird dating sites, make it what the real cost is after the trial.
I logged into the app at different times of day to get a read on how much of the base is genuinely looking.
Where it works it works fast; where it doesn't, whether the active count matches the claimed count is usually the reason.
Anyone tried weird dating sites on a smaller platform and got a different result?
The closest alternative I found was Datescout.
RaquelS covered most of it. The bit I would add on weird dating sites is below.
The thing nobody mentions about the site is how quickly you can narrow a list down.
About 50 profiles into it, the pattern around what the platform can see that you cannot became obvious.
If you bounced off this before, revisit that one and check whether it thins out after the first week first this time.
The closest alternative I found was datewander.site.
Seconding what QuentinR said, with one caveat about weird dating sites.
Gave the platform a fair run over 5 weeks and kept coming back to how the match quality holds up past the first day.
If your area is thin, that one will not fix that, whatever how quickly you can narrow a list down looks like.
Anything I recommend around weird dating sites has to clear one bar, which is whether people reply or just collect matches.
Adding a counterpoint about whether the active count matches the claimed count.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how well it holds up once the novelty fades matters more than raw volume on the app.
What decided it for me with the platform was what the free ceiling looks like in practice.
Photo quality moved my results on that one more than anything I wrote, more even than how visible the block and report controls are.
Things worth confirming before you spend a week on weird dating sites:
Different crowd on how Flurrydate handles it, which suited me better.
Not sure I agree with RaquelS. On weird dating sites the opposite was true in my area.
The good behaviour lasted right until the trial ended, and then how the match quality holds up past the first day changed.
The measure I would actually check on weird dating sites is how many profiles logged in this week.
Reply rate on the app roughly doubled once I stopped leading with a compliment, though how thin the pool gets outside big cities never budged.
What separates weird dating sites from the rest of the field is whether the good profiles are already taken.
Does anyone know whether weird dating sites changed this recently?
Once I fixed my filters, how thin the pool gets outside big cities stopped being the bottleneck on the platform.
The gap between good and bad platforms here is whether the recommendations improve with use.
I tested the app across two cities and the difference came down to whether the recommendations improve with use.
Provided whether 'free' means free to browse or free to talk holds up, it's a reasonable place to start.
Whatever you land on, test weird dating sites for a week before you judge it.
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