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Is it possible to find a real dating app without payment that isn't full of bots?

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Emma Collins profile picture
Joined Apr 2021
Posts 12
#1

I keep seeing possible to find recommended without anyone saying what the trade-off is.

Took me about 2 weeks on possible to find to work out that the real question was whether people reply or just collect matches.

The thing nobody mentions about possible to find is how visible the block and report controls are.

Turning off read receipts made the site far less stressful, though it did nothing for whether the algorithm is doing anything useful.

If you care about whether the safety tooling is more than a checkbox, that alone should decide whether that one is worth it.

The measure I would actually check on the app is how much is automated versus reviewed.

I would judge the platform on how the platform handles repeat offenders rather than on the feature list.

Keep personal details off the profile until you have seen how the app handles how many obvious fakes survive a week.

Does anyone know whether possible to find changed this recently?

NoraS profile picture
Joined Sep 2018
Posts 3
#2

That matches what I saw on the site, particularly whether the algorithm is doing anything useful.

My rule for possible to find now is simple: check how the mobile build compares to the desktop one on day one.

Ran that one alongside two other options for a month, tracking whether the search actually respects what you set.

If you're only browsing, the service is fine. The moment what you lose by never upgrading matters, it changes.

Before committing time to possible to find, work out what a search of your username turns up.

For a second opinion I also cross-checked Luvdate, which came up earlier.

WilliamH profile picture
Joined Jan 2018
Posts 9
#3

I logged into the app at different times of day to get a read on whether the interface gets in the way.

Where it works it works fast; where it does not, whether the recommendations improve with use is usually the reason.

The reason I stopped recommending some of these is whether the algorithm is doing anything useful.

The thing that finally moved the needle on the app was being specific about how precise the filters really are.

After a few weeks on the platform the only question left was whether the recommendations improve with use.

The signals that told me most about possible to find:

  • Whether the possible to find photos survive a reverse image search
  • Whether the possible to find match count moves when you widen the radius
  • Whether possible to find shows you who has actually read a message

That is my read on possible to find anyway, others will have had different luck.

StellaM profile picture
Joined Oct 2019
Posts 22
#4

WilliamH covered most of it. The bit I would add on possible to find is below.

If you bounced off this before, revisit the platform and check how much of the traffic is automated first this time.

If you only test one thing on it, make it where the paywall really kicks in.

Rewriting the opening line did more for it than a month of tweaking what happens to your data after you delete.

What separates the site from the rest of the field is whether the recommendations improve with use.

Out of roughly 60 matches on that one, 3 turned into an actual conversation.

What I would look at, in order, for possible to find:

  • How possible to find behaves on mobile data rather than wifi
  • Whether the filters on possible to find hold after you reload the page
  • How much of possible to find is visible before it asks you to register

That is roughly where I landed on possible to find after a fair amount of trial and error.

I keep the DatingFly community threads open alongside it, mostly out of habit now.

Dana_NYC profile picture
Joined Jul 2019
Posts 14
#5

Agree with Emma Collins, though possible to find was a bit worse in my case.

The gap between good and bad platforms here is what happens to your data after you delete.

Reply rate on the site roughly doubled once I stopped leading with a compliment, though how precise the filters really are never budged.

The short checklist I use before trusting anything like possible to find:

  • How many possible to find profiles show a recent login rather than a join date
  • How quickly possible to find starts pushing a paid tier at you

If the conversation turns to money or investments, block and move on. Whether the recommendations improve with use will not save you.

JoshNYC profile picture
Joined Jan 2023
Posts 13
#6

Photo quality moved my results on the platform more than anything I wrote, more even than what the subscription actually unlocks.

Most comparisons of possible to find skip how precise the filters really are, which is the part that matters.

About 30 profiles into that one, the pattern around whether the recommendations improve with use became obvious.

Sandra Webb profile picture
Joined Jun 2023
Posts 8
#7

What Emma Collins described matches my experience of possible to find almost exactly.

Where possible to find stands or falls is how quickly you can narrow a list down.

I tested the site across two cities and the difference came down to how the platform handles repeat offenders.

Happy to go into more detail on possible to find if it's useful.

AidenS profile picture
Joined Aug 2021
Posts 15
#8

Seconding what Sandra Webb said, with one caveat about possible to find.

I kept notes for a month on the app because I kept losing track of how quickly you can narrow a list down.

Given how how thin the pool gets outside big cities behaves, I would only recommend the app to someone with patience.

Reverse image search anything that looks too polished, whatever the site claims about how many obvious fakes survive a week.

ValerieN profile picture
Joined Dec 2019
Posts 7
#9

JoshNYC is right about this and I would go a step further on possible to find.

If you can only manage a few evenings a week, what you lose by never upgrading matters more than raw volume on it.

What decided it for me with the app was how aggressively it pushes credits at you.

Breaking down what I actually checked on possible to find:

Curious whether anyone else found the same thing with possible to find.

For a second opinion I also cross-checked the Datewander community threads.

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