Adding a counterpoint about whether enforcement is consistent or random.
Anything I recommend around popular dating apps has to clear one bar, which is whether the interface gets in the way.
Out of roughly 80 matches on the app, 4 turned into an actual conversation.
If you bounced off this before, revisit the platform and check how aggressively it pushes credits at you first this time.
Happy to go into more detail on popular dating apps if it's useful.
DatingFly - worth a look came up when I asked the same question last year.