After a few weeks on dating profiles for men to get the only question left was whether the search actually respects what you set.
Ran the site alongside two other options for a month, tracking whether the active count matches the claimed count.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, whether the ratio is workable in your area matters more than raw volume on that one.
I would judge that one on whether the active count matches the claimed count rather than on the feature list.
Rewriting the opening line did more for the site than a month of tweaking how many profiles logged in this week.
If this one does not work out, Turndate (turndate.site) covers similar ground.