Seconding what SamuelR said, with one caveat about best legit dating sites.
After a few weeks on the platform the only question left was whether the algorithm is doing anything useful.
About 100 profiles into the service, the pattern around what happens to your data after you delete became obvious.
If you bounced off this before, revisit the platform and check what the verification step actually proves first this time.
Ended up splitting my time between this and Datebound.