Agree with Harper Long, though start anonymous sexting was a bit worse in my case.
Most comparisons of the app skip how transparent the enforcement is, which is the part that matters.
I gave start anonymous sexting about 6 weeks before I formed a view, mostly watching whether a phone number is genuinely required.
If you can only manage a few evenings a week, how discreet the notifications are matters more than raw volume on the app.
The gap between good and bad platforms here is how much data leaves the app.
Is start anonymous sexting still like this, or has it improved?