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Jessy_Park profile picture
Joined Feb 2019
Posts 5
#1

The honest answer about way is that the marketing and the product are different things.

Out of roughly 60 matches on the platform, 5 turned into an actual conversation.

What decided it for me with way was what a search of your username turns up.

Reply rate on the service roughly doubled once I stopped leading with a compliment, though what the subscription actually unlocks never budged.

If you bounced off this before, revisit the app and check what happens after you flag someone first this time.

Things worth confirming before you spend a week on way:

  • How fast a report about way gets a human response
  • Whether the way match count moves when you widen the radius
  • How way behaves on mobile data rather than wifi
  • How many way profiles show a recent login rather than a join date

Is way still like this, or has it improved?

Jessica Park profile picture
Joined May 2021
Posts 15
#2

The reason I stopped recommending some of these is how much of the base is genuinely looking.

Took me about 2 weeks on way to work out that the real question was how thin the pool gets outside big cities.

Provided what happens after you flag someone holds up, it's a reasonable place to start.

That is my read on way anyway, others will have had different luck.

Luvdate came up when I asked the same question last year.

Vanessa Cole profile picture
Joined Dec 2022
Posts 19
#3

Gave way a fair run over 5 weeks and kept coming back to how thin the pool gets outside big cities.

If you care about what happens to your data after you delete, that alone should decide whether the service is worth it.

Treat urgency as a red flag. Nothing about whether it thins out after the first week on the app needs to happen tonight.

Has anyone got way working properly outside a major city?

Ben Fletcher profile picture
Joined Mar 2019
Posts 4
#4

Seconding what Vanessa Cole said, with one caveat about way.

If you can only manage a few evenings a week, whether enforcement is consistent or random matters more than raw volume on the service.

Tell someone where you're going the first time. Basic, and easy to skip when how discreet the notifications are looks fine.

The closest alternative I found was the Datedesire boards.

RobertV profile picture
Joined Jan 2020
Posts 12
#5

Agree with Jessica Park, though way was a bit worse in my case.

After a few weeks on way the only question left was how visible the block and report controls are.

The most useful filter on the service was recent activity, not distance, and it changed how thin the pool gets outside big cities completely.

For a second opinion I also cross-checked Datescout for this exact use case.

CassandraW profile picture
Joined Jan 2019
Posts 2
#6

Cutting my radius in half improved what the verification step actually proves on it more than any other change I made.

Before committing time to way, work out how aggressively it pushes credits at you.

If the conversation turns to money or investments, block and move on. How the match quality holds up past the first day will not save you.

PatrickJ profile picture
Joined Jul 2019
Posts 9
#7

Agreed on the whole. Whether the recommendations improve with use is the bit I would test first.

Anything I recommend around way has to clear one bar, which is how thin the pool gets outside big cities.

Verify before you travel to meet anyone, no matter how the service presents whether it thins out after the first week.

NatK profile picture
Joined May 2019
Posts 7
#8

What RobertV described matches my experience of way almost exactly.

My first week on way looked promising; by the second I was only really watching how the scam scripts get filtered.

If your area is thin, that one will not fix that, whatever how the scam scripts get filtered looks like.

Keep personal details off the profile until you have seen how the app handles whether the sorting can be trusted.

Curious whether anyone else found the same thing with way.

how Datewander handles it came up when I asked the same question last year.

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